Parent Resources
For the LOVE of the Game!
Every child needs some assistance in developing a love/passion for soccer, and this can be developed by:
Reading about soccer Together. First, you will show your child the value of reading. Second, you will be showing your child affection and providing comfort. Third, you will show your child that you are interested in developing and sharing in his/her interest. Finally, through the reading material, you may stimulate your child’s interest and establish that soccer is serious FUN and not serious work.
Watching games Together. As you are watching games decide what you will focus on: A specific player, A specific technique, Specific running patterns… Ask your child to imagine themselves being part of the action on the field. Discuss the action on the field and find out if your child is really observing the game as a participant. But, remember the younger the child, the shorter the attention span!
Watching training videos Together. Select only ONE technique per viewing. Plan to repeat each segment several times so that the subconscious can record the action. Look for a different aspects of the movement such as head movement, body movement, foot movement as separate focal points. Have your child explain to you what each movement would be if they were performing the movement.
Practice Together. Find out what your child’s coach expects of your child so that you can reinforce those expectations at home. Or, have your child put into action what you read about or observed. When trying to show your child how the technique looks, be sure to laugh at your own mistakes. Your practice sessions should be short unless your child shows great interest in continuing. Practice Together today and every day! Since this will be your child’s only childhood, and they are available right now –Start playing right now. Delaying practice until tomorrow is always too late, so practice together today because sometimes tomorrow never comes!
Game Day Reminders
PLEASE REMEMBER:
- THE PLAYERS ARE CHILDREN
- THE COACHES ARE VOLUNTEERS
- THE REFEREES ARE HUMAN
- THIS IS NOT THE WORLD CUP
- RESPECT BOTH TEAMS
- GIVE PRAISE NOT CRITICISM
- ALLOW THE KIDS TO HAVE FUN! THIS IS THEIR GAME!
Parental Involvement on Game Day
Positive parental involvement in the soccer experience is essential to a players continued interest in the game. The average age at which a soccer player stops playing the game of soccer in the United States is 12, which coincidentally, is the average age at which players begin to play organized soccer in the rest of the world. Players who cease playing the game cite parental pressure to excel and lack of positive feedback as the most significant reasons for quitting the game. In order to improve your child's experience and ensure his or her long-term commitment to the game, please provide your child, his or her teammates, coaches, and the opposing team with positive encouragement before, during and after each match.
Also, remember that both of you and your child are part of a team. While on the field during the match your child is under the direction and supervision of his or her coach. The referees are present to enforce the rules of the game and to make every effort to ensure that the game is played fairly and safely. Inappropriate or abusive parental behavior toward a coach, player, another parent or a referee can result in parental ejections from a match by the referee.